Jealousy

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June 13

Thursday, June 13th, 2024

I read in the past, and again recently, the following story:

A fisherman who caught crabs would keep them in a bucket without a lid. Someone noticed this and asked him, “Don’t you have to keep a lid on that bucket?”

He said, “No, they never get out.”

“Why? Because they can’t get out?”

“No,” he said. “When one crab tries to go over the side, the others reach up and pull him back down.”

When I read that I thought, “How much like humans that is.” We can’t hardly stand to watch someone, especially a rival, get ahead of us. We turn green with envy and jealousy and begin to think, “Hey! I deserve that. Not him. Not her. I put forth a lot of effort to get that.”

Envy is one of those things that we shoot at someone else and end up wounding ourselves.

Listen to these verses:

“The greatest among you must be a servant. But those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.” Mt. 23:11-12

“There are six things the Lord hates-no, seven things he detests: haughty eyes…” Pr. 6:16-17a

“Pride leads to disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom.” Pr. 11:2

“God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble…Humble yourselves before the Lord, and He will lift you up in honor.” Js. 4:6,10

There are tons more where those came from! Simple truth: God wants us to put the needs of others above our own, to love one another, to and care for one another.  Envy, and its sister, jealousy are listed as works of the flesh in Galatians 5 and really have no place in the life of the Christ-follower. Let’s stop it before it takes root.

{Note: All Scripture is from the New Living Translation}

August 24

Thursday, August 24th, 2023

Can we all go on record as saying it is hard not to be jealous?  If we are honest, it is a constant battle many fight. To make it even worse is that we often have to sit by and watch those who do wrong, or those who do it the wrong way, get ahead. The words which come out of our mouth are often the very same words we hear from our kids: “It’s not fair!” And we say then? “Life isn’t fair so get over it.”

I thought of that when I read Proverbs 24:19-20 this morning: “Do not get upset because of evildoers or be envious of the wicked; for there will be no future for the evil person; the lamp of the wicked will be put out.” (NASB2020)

When it comes to jealousy; when it comes to “life isn’t fair,” these verses tell us “Yep, it’s true, but don’t get bent out of shape over the seeming unfairness of it all. Life has an end, and in the end, the  wicked will be the loser.”

Proverbs 22:1 says, “A good name is to be more desired than great wealth; favor is better than silver and gold.” (NASB2020)

Case closed. Jealousy for more isn’t worth it, especially when it is toward someone who is evil. Choose a life of integrity and a good name. That legacy will be one worth remembering.

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As chaplain for the Owen County Sheriff’s Department I have what is called an intervention this morning. Several of our front line workers responded to a suicide on Tuesday. An intervention gives them an opportunity to express how they feel, the emotions they are working through, and what (if any) nightmares they might be having. I work alongside one of the trained facilitators.  I would appreciate your prayers as I go through this with them. Following that, Jo and I will be heading to Ohio to celebrate Janna’s birthday, visit Jo’s sister in the nursing home in Sandusky, and to watch our grandson play football Friday night. I will approve and answer any comments when I am able. But I do covet your prayers for a safe trip.