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October 3

Thursday, October 3rd, 2024

“I’m nobody.” “I’m inadequate.” “I have no status.” “I have no talents or skills.” “I have nothing to bring to the table.” And the penultimate: “I can’t.”

Those are often short little comebacks we use when asked to do something out of our comfort zone, or when challenged by something out of our wheelhouse. We often shrink in fear because we just don’t think “we got it” or to put it another way: we think we don’t have the “it” factor (whatever “it” is).

Step back for a moment and take a breath. Imagine if some of the Bible characters said that and were paralyzed by fear:

  • David was the runt of the litter. Not even his dad thought he could be a candidate for the next king.
  • Gideon was hiding, crushing grain while in hiding out of fear of the Philistines, when the angel appeared to him and called him a “mighty man of valor.”  🙂
  • Deborah became the only female judge because she was willing to trust God (unlike Barak, her counterpart).
  • Peter was a blue-collar fisherman trying to keep his head above water (pun intended) making a living.
  • Caleb and Joshua stood against the odds (10 other spies) to say, “We can do this. We can take this land.” They spent the next 40 years wandering the wilderness because the other 10 spies were able to convince millions of people to be afraid.

This brings to mind verses in I Corinthians 1. Verses 27-29 say, “Instead, God chose things the world considers foolish in order to shame those who think they are wise. And he chose things that are powerless to shame those who are powerful. God chose things despised by the world, things counted as nothing at all, and used them to bring to nothing what the world considers important. As a result, no one can ever boast in the presence of God.” (NLT)

The world see humility and trust in God as silly, as a sign of weakness. Foolish is the word Paul uses. Little do they know God’s presence and power make all the difference in a believer’s life.

So…step out today in faith. Take that step which seems so scary, so unsure.  Your nothingness, your inadequacy, becomes much in God’s hands.

Besides…can’t never did anything.

October 2

Wednesday, October 2nd, 2024

The life of a Christ-follower is a life of struggle. If anyone says anything differently tell them to take a hike. The whole idea of an “easy life” is nuts.  The whole teaching that a follower of Christ is to never struggle and live only in victory is whacked.  It has been my experience that to live for Christ is difficult. Not impossible, but difficult. It is hard. It is a constant ripping at the heart, the very fabric of my soul. If, according to the health/wealth false teachers or the New Apostolic Reformation so-called “apostles and prophets,” I’m messed up, then so be it. Jesus suffered; I will suffer. Jesus felt abandoned; so will I. Jesus felt alone; guilty.

The good news is that I am not alone; I do not suffer alone; and I’m not left defenseless. Listen to these words from Psalm 119. See if they don’t challenge and encourage you:

“Oh, that my actions would consistently reflect your decrees!” (v.5)

“How can a young person stay pure? By obeying your word.” (v.9)

“I have hidden your word in my heart, that I might not sin against you.” (v.11)

“Turn my eyes from worthless things, and give me life through your word.” (v.37)

There you have just 4 verses from my reading of verses 1-40 this morning. If I was to “organize” them into thoughts I would say:

  1. Be consistent.
  2. Obey the Word.
  3. Stay in the Word.
  4. Focus on Him.

I wish more than anything that I could say, “Do these four things and you will never fail!” While in theory that may be true, in reality it won’t happen. Stumbling is a reality; failure (giving up) should not be.

Be consistent. Obey the Word. Stay in the Word. Focus on Him. Easy? No. But worth every moment. May the words of this Scripture be your guide today. 

September 23

Monday, September 23rd, 2024

Let me start out by saying, “What a weekend!” That is not a complaint; I am stating a fact. An outdoor wedding with a rehearsal that held so many moving parts it was way beyond my norm. Did I mention it was an outdoor rehearsal in 90+ degree weather? 🙂

Saturday, the day of the afternoon wedding, was brutal. Friday night brought a rain shower of 10-15 minutes that elevated the “sticky” factor. On Saturday, the sun was bright and poured down on us mercilessly. I went through a towel I kept handy and barely had a dry spot on the clothes on my body. I think even my tie was wet. 🙂 If nothing else, it was from the sweat that poured down from my head to my face and went everywhere. Did I mention it was an outdoor wedding in 90+ degree heat? 🙂

You get the picture. Sweet relief came when the sun went behind the clouds for about 45 minutes of the outdoor reception. But then… Did I mention the reception was outdoors in 90+ degree heat?

Again…I’m sure you get the picture. The bride in her gown. The groom in his dress blues. He never complained until the next day when I heard him say. “I was hot and couldn’t wait to take them off.” Logan and Kathryn have a story to tell of their 3 years of dating. It started when Kathryn’s family decided to go to school in our district, leaving the one they had been in all the way to her Sophomore year. Logan’s inquiry of “Who is that new girl?” led to a friend getting a name and number. The rest is history. Much of their dating has been long-distance since he was two years ahead of her and enlisted in the Marines. They have a story to tell of their courtship and wedding, and now of their life together.

Their marriage is a cord of 3 strands: Logan, Kathryn, and God. They have put Him at the foundation of their relationship from the start and I’m sure He will continue to be. I challenged Logan to lead his family with love. I challenged Kathryn to fill her family with love. And challenged them both to allow Christ to be the foundation of their home and the source of that love. 

Knowing them…I have no doubt they will. They will have more of a story to tell. Their honeymoon will take them through Gatlinburg and surrounding areas and then to Quantico where he is stationed and where they will make their home for the next year and a half. I can’t wait to hear their story!

September 18

Wednesday, September 18th, 2024

I read the following story recently. I thought I would share it with you:

In 1942 Davis Ellis was hired as educational director for Allstate Insurance Company. His job was to recruit and train female insurance agents during WWII. In 1950 Ellis’ daughter got sick with hepatitis. One morning as Dave headed out the door for work, the family physician called to let the family know that he was very concerned about JoAnn and that he was calling in a specialist, a Dr. Keyser. That evening when Ellis returned home, his wife, Helen, rushed to him and threw her arms around him. “Dave,” she said, “the specialist has examined JoAnn and Dr. Cummings tells me that JoAnn in in good hands with Dr. Keyser.”

JoAnn recovered, and later that year, Ellis was part of a group working into the night to plan Allstate’s ad program for the coming year. Dave Ellis remembered how his anxiety eased when hearing those words: in good hands. He suggested using it as a slogan, along with an illustration of a pair of hands cradling a car. “You’re in good hands” has been Allstate’s slogan ever since. (found in Saved by Nancy Guthrie-p.127)

Just so you know, this is not a commercial for Allstate. My insurance company has been a “Good Neighbor” for close to 50 years.  🙂

But here is my thought I’d like you to ponder as well: Many people deem trouble and suffering as a bad thing. To be transparent, I’ve done my fair share of complaining, whining, and even crying when situations seem to keep coming and want to overwhelm me. But one thing I need to, no, want to keep in mind is that every moment, every event, is either a learning moment or a teaching moment. I can use it to learn something or use it to teach something.  Mr. Ellis used the moment with his daughter to learn something and then, in turn, use it to teach/share into a positive lesson.

In I Corinthians 10 the Apostle Paul is writing about Israel’s history in the wilderness and says these words: “These are things that happened as a warning to us.” (v.6). In verse 11 he says, “These things happened to them as examples for us. They were written down to warn us…”

Waste nothing. Learn from it. Teach it.

{Note: All Scripture from New Living Translation}

September 9

Monday, September 9th, 2024

Q: Who will teach our children?

A: The public school. Aaaah yeah.

A: The local church. That’s a little bit better answer but it still falls short.

A: The home/parents. At one point in the past we might have said, “Yes!” But recent events and previous events/years show us that is not always the best source.

A: The church and the home together. This is probably the best answer. Not the exclusive one like it used to be. When both church and home are off the rails, that makes for a crazy train ride.

I ask that question because of something I read this morning. It struck home. Psalm 78:4-6 says this: “We will not hide these truths from our children; we will tell the next generation about the glorious deeds of the Lord, about his power and his mighty wonders. For he issued his laws to Jacob; He commanded our ancestors to teach them to their children, so the next generation might know them-even the children not yet born-and they in turn will teach their own children.” (NLT)

The admonition there is that parents have been taught to teach so they can teach by passing down the lessons learned. This psalm is pretty clear that the bulk of the teaching is to be done at home, not at the public school (heaven forbid) or even the church (some of that is whacked).

But there is more! Verses 7-8 tell us why we are to teach our children! “So each generation should set its hope anew on God, not forgetting his glorious miracles and obeying his commands. Then they will not be like their ancestors-stubborn, rebellious, and unfaithful, refusing to give their hearts to God.” (NLT)

Methinks that somewhere along the line we missed the target. Just sayin’.

{Note: I’m not saying all public schools are off base. There are some-like my local school district-who, at this point, try hard to teach values I would consider worth learning. That’s the value of a small town school.}

September 4

Wednesday, September 4th, 2024

For over a decade the Marvel Cinematic Universe was a ratings juggernaut. Iron Man. Captain America. Spider Man. Ant Man. The Hulk. Thor. Captain Marvel. The Avengers. And more. They seemed like an unstoppable force. Like all fads, however,  they got old. Creativity sometimes goes downhill. Sometimes the crowd changes. Sometimes “watch fatigue” sets in. The man behind MCU was a smiling man wearing sunglasses who always had some type of cameo in the movie. His name was Stan Lee. Stan had a personal catch-phrase he used to sign off  with  in his monthly columns in Marvel comics for decades-the word excelsior. If you look up excelsior in the dictionary it has quite a history. Here is a brief explanation of its history:

Onward and Upward With Excelsior. In 1778 the state of New York adopted a coat of arms incorporating the motto “Excelsior,” Latin for “Higher.” Decades later, the motto sparked the imagination of the young Henry Wadsworth Longfellow, and in 1842 he used it as the title of an allegorical poem of doomed idealism. (Merriam-Webster).

That is an interesting use of a term by Stan Lee. I have no clue whether he was a Christ-follower or not, that is not my purpose in this post. Instead, I prefer to take that word excelsior and apply it to the life of the Christ-follower. Stan once tweeted, “Upward and onward to greater glory! That’s what I wish you whenever I finish tweeting! Excelsior!” Again, I don’t know Stan’s eternal state, but those words strike a chord with me. Is that not what the Christian walk is all about? Upward and onward? Is that not what the Apostle Paul was expressing when he said, “I don’t mean to say that I have already achieved these things (to know Christ, the power of His resurrection and experience the power of His resurrection from verses 10-11) or that I have already reached perfection for which Christ Jesus first possessed me. No, dear brothers and sisters, I have not achieved it, but I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, I press on to reach the end of the race and received the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling me.” (Phil. 3:12-14)  (The previously mentioned verses 10-11 were also from Phil. 3).

All that growth is possible because of what Paul also writes in Colossians 2:7: “Let your roots grow down into him, and let your lives be built on him. Then your faith will grow strong in the truth you were taught, and you will overflow with thankfulness.”  Upward and onward happens when we go downward and deeper. I was recently talking to someone who was having to replace fence posts because the original were not placed deep enough and were breaking off. The same principle applies to a Christ-follower. Can you imagine the Empire State Building still standing if it had been built with a standard footer used to build a house? Think Leaning Tower of Pisa. For the follower of Christ He is our firm foundation. He is the rock on which we stand. Psalm 71:3 says, “Be my rock of safety where I can always hide. Give the order to save me, for you are my rock and my fortress.”

Where are you planted today? Remember Excelsior, but also remember that happening relies on your foundation.

{Note: All Scripture is from the New Living Translation}

August 28

Wednesday, August 28th, 2024

Highs and lows. Mountains and valleys.

That really is a capsule of our lives and of many of our days. Often, even within the same day, we ride the thrill of the high and the mountain only to find ourselves experiencing the lows of the valleys just an hour or so later. Once, early in my ministry, the senior pastor was gone for two weeks on a trip. This 300+ member church was left to me. Yikes!  Green. Inexperienced. Unsure. In one day I went from a funeral to a wedding to a funeral. Yep, you read that right…all in one day! It was definitely a roller coaster day.

I had one of those yesterday. I went from the high of a bike ride to spending time with a young lady and her parents about her upcoming wedding in something like 25 days.  (And yes, I showered in between!) 🙂 Her fiance is in the Marines so much has been left to them. We laughed and talked about the wedding plans, walked next door to see the outside yard it is to take place at (unless it rains), and laughed some more. I left there to visit someone who was very emotional following surgery as this person talked about their life. The surgery brought out those already raw emotions that had the person using multiple tissues. While there I met a teacher I had read to her K class for the past two years and was now at another school. We laughed and I think it was good for both of us, especially since her son was having emergency surgery. I then went to a rehab facility to visit with the person who longs to go home and had had a long tiring day of PT, ST, and OT in order to make that home going happen. I finally made my way home to my oasis.

I know that type of day is an anomaly. Some days are humdrum and normal. We all go through those days and times when life seems a tad bit out of control. Even Jesus had days like that. Within one chapter (Luke 8), He went from the high of calming a storm to healing a demoniac of possession to the low of the fear and terror of the people. He then was met by a man who asked Jesus to heal his daughter, to being interrupted by a woman who had suffered bleeding for 12 years. He healed her then moved on to the trauma of watching a father being told his daughter had died. Even then, the reaction of the mourners was laughter at His suggestion that she was not dead. He then witnessed the extreme joy of parents as He brought their child back to life. It’s no wonder Jesus needed to get off by Himself occasionally. He needed to refuel and replenish His spirit by being with His Father.

So it is with us. Those moments with His Father refreshed Him and sustained Him for whatever was on the horizon. So it was for me. The oasis of home and a wife who waits and a daughter who regales with stories from her day at school. (No names mentioned just stories). We all need that oasis. Do you have one? We were not made to keep that bowstring always taught. It has to find some “relaxation” to make it ready for its next use. 

 

August 27

Tuesday, August 27th, 2024

SUCCESSION.

To some that’s a bad word. To some it’s an unspoken word. To others it is a word that fulfills the first part of that word: SUCCESS.

I’ve been reading a lot lately on succession. I’m on my second reading of Next by Vanderbloemen and Bird (First and now second edition). I’ve read two others and will soon read The Elephant in the Boardroom by Weece and Crabtree.

Why? To put it bluntly: I’m 71 years old, soon to be 72 in October. I start my 20th year at OVCF (the church I pastor) in November. I’m not getting any younger. (I know, sad, but true). 🙂 And even though it would be nice to keep pastoring and living to a good old age that isn’t guaranteed. The stats are still one out of one I will kick the bucket. So not only do I need to prepare for my transition out of this life, I also need to prepare for my transition out of OVCF. I want it to grow and live on! NO ONE wants to see something they have given their heart and soul, blood, sweat and tears to go down the tubes. Unless, of course, that person is a narcissist.

There is an old saying

Those who cannot remember the past are doomed to repeat it. (George Santayana, philosopher)

“Wise leaders in pastoral succession will learn from the past.” (Vanderbloemen and Bird-Next-p.154) In my reading I have read of enough failures to know I. DO. NOT. WANT. THAT!

A wise leader also learns to recognize when age, health, or simple lack of effectiveness affects or will soon affect his/her future. That goes for any CEO; founder: leader; church planter; or in my case, a pastor who loves his people.

I’m reminded of the words of John the Baptizer when asked about the popularity of Jesus over him. John said, “He must become greater and greater, and I must become less and less.” (John 3:30 NLT) And that is the whole point of succession. For me at least. I don’t want to hold back the advance of God’s kingdom because of arrogance and pride.

That same principle applies to all leaders faced with the need for succession. Don’t hold back the advance of your company because of arrogance and pride. While I’m not a CEO, A CFO, or any other “O”, I want to see God’s kingdom move forward, especially at OVCF.

August 26

Monday, August 26th, 2024

We all want validation. We all want to know we matter. We all want to know that what we do is important or at least makes a difference. We have no doubt some people make a difference. Consider history: electricity. The phone. The light bulb. The car. You name it. How shocked Henry Ford would be today to see cars in more colors that basic black. But his name goes down in history-not for his comment about the color of cars, but for his invention. The story is told of Alfred Nobel having a life “awakening.” A newspaper erroneously published that he had died (not his brother) and it applauded him for his invention of dynamite and other explosives. It shocked him so much he established the Nobel Peace Prize. He wanted to be known more for peace than blowing things up and taking lives. 

Tragically, there are many who never consider their legacy. We are so hungry getting validation from the people around us that we stop getting it from God. We live for the pat on the back, the “atta boy,” that we find ourselves doing what is popular instead of what is right. We seek the here-and-now instead of the eternal. We settle for what feels good in the moment rather than what is going to matter in eternity.

Jesus said it this way: “A good tree can’t produce bad fruit, and a bad tree can’t produce good fruit. A tree is identified by its fruit…A good person produces good things from the treasury of a good heart, and an evil person produces evil things from the treasury of an evil heart. What you say flows from what is in your heart.” (Luke 6:43-44a, 45 NLT)

What we do flows out of what is in our heart. What will you be known for?

August 5

Monday, August 5th, 2024

“Every man has a battle to fight; an adventure to live; and a beauty to rescue.”

That is the moniker of a ministry called Wild at Heart that I latched onto in the early 2000s. The ministry was started and led by John Eldredge and I must have read that book 4-5 times.  I led men through that course 3 times. It reached into the depths of who I was and where I lived. As I aged and matured, I sort of settled into a pattern, a routine, of what was “expected” of an aging, maturing man.  I settled for “safe.”

  • I settled in as a husband.
  • I settled in as a father.
  • I settled in as a pastor.
  • I settled in as a man.

For lack of a better way to put it…I became predictable, reliable, and as much as I hate to say it: B-O-R-I-N-G. Not that there is anything wrong with being predictable and reliable, but give. me. a. break!

I lost my sense of adventure. I became, as I have stated, S.A.F.E. Too safe. Even though I loved watching and reading of adventures like Lord of the Rings or even Titanic or even the early MacGyver, I was too safe and too sedentary and too entrenched and too “logical” to be adventurous.

One of the teachings of Wild at Heart was the idea of finding what makes you come alive and go do that. Find out what ignites my heart- my passion- and go do that.  The world needs people today who are fully alive, not those who play at life, play it “safe,” and walking around with their heads in the ground. 

So…what makes you come alive? Do you find yourself engaged or withdrawn? Find what makes you come alive and go do that.