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Wednesday, October 9th, 2024
Famous people born on October 9th. Tony Shaloub (OCD Monk). Jackson (“Doctor my eyes” & “Mr. Bojangles”) Browne. John Lennon (Ever heard of him?). Scott Bakula (Quantum Leap and Star Trek: Enterprise…See a pattern? NCIS: New Orleans). Sharon Osbourne (oh…yay). And others.
Famous people who died on October 9th: Oskar Schindler (a hero to many). Jacques Derrida & Che Guevara (I should be sad to them gone why?). And others.
One more: Me. 🙂 It is funny how perspectives change…but then again, they really don’t. Life is just looked at from different angles. When I was a young boy and my parents were in their 30s and my grandparents were in their 50s, I thought they were ancient. 🙂 As I aged, so did they. My mom had medical issues in her 40s that required surgery; my dad had a heart attack at 48; my grandfather had a knee replaced in his 70s. His job with USS and his bowed-legs did him in. I’ll soon be joining his club due to my own bowed legs and playing sports (especially basketball) way past my prime. My age and his are eerily close. My mom went to be with Jesus one month shy of her 72nd birthday from a rare form of lung cancer which struck woman who were non-smokers. My grandmother died of lymph node cancer. My grandfather lived to be close to 90. My dad died at 90 with Alzheimer’s.
All of that seems surreal when one is young and looking through the window. But, in time, that window becomes a mirror. At 72, I’m not ready to cash it in. I’m not ready to retire. I absolutely love what I do and don’t see myself doing anything else (especially being a Walmart greeter). 🙂 But I also realize my time is not in my hands. My favorite verses of the Bible are found in my favorite chapter: Psalm 37. They have sustained me and are my go-to verses. “Trust in the Lord and do good…Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you your heart’s desires. Commit everything you do to the Lord. Trust him, and he will help you….Be still in the presence of the Lord, and wait patiently for him to act…Stop being angry! Turn from your rage! Do not lose your temper-it only leads to harm.” (verses 3-8). Verses 23-25 says, “The Lord directs the steps of the godly. He delights in every detail of their lives. Though they stumble, they will never fall, for the Lord holds them by the hand. Once I was young, and now I am old. Yet I have never seen the godly abandoned.” (NLT)
I, you, have no control over our future. My DeLorean can be packed and ready to travel but no time machine can change God’s plans and timing. Yes, I am 72. I have less years left than I have lived. But I know, while I have no control over how many, I do know I want to live them full tilt. While Jo wants me to retire, or at least slow down (to a crawl), that is not my plan…unless God says otherwise.
Have a full and blessed day my friends. I certainly plan to do so. As an old song once said, “The longer I serve Him the sweeter He grows.”
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Tuesday, October 8th, 2024
There are some stories that make me smile and chuckle, but also mess with my mind at the same time. The daily devotional, Our Daily Bread, had the following story in today’s devotion:
“When people think about the 100-meter dash, current world-record holder Usain Bolt comes to mind. But we can’t forget about Julia “Hurricane” Hawkins. In 2021, Julie crossed the finish line before all other runners to win the 100-meter dash in the Louisiana Senior Games. Her time was a bit slower than Bolt’s 9.58 seconds-just over 60 seconds. But she was also 105 years old!
Now, honestly, doesn’t that bring a smile to your face and make you chuckle just a bit?
There’s a lot to be said about a woman “running sprints” at the age of 105!! I turn 72 tomorrow and I’m not ashamed to admit that she would outrun me. I certainly ain’t the man I used to me. 🙂 With the prospect of a knee replacement in my not-so-distant-future (about a month), her feat is even more astounding. I’ve been told that after the replacement I won’t be allowed to run (as if); jump (double as if); or lift more than 40 pounds (that is bending down and lifting with my legs, like squats (again…triple as if). Individual dumbbells are okay…but I’ll try to restrain myself, lest I show off. 🙂
All kidding aside, I simply cannot imagine doing what Julia did.
To be honest, I’m more concerned about running the race of faith, of standing firm and true to Jesus, no matter my age. Whether 71 (for one more day); 72 or more for years beyond; staying true and running the race with perseverance is on my radar. Hebrews 12:1-2 says, “Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a huge crowd of witnesses to the life of faith, let us strip off every weight that slows us down, especially the sin that so easily trips us up. And let us run with endurance the race God has set before us. We do this by keeping our eyes on Jesus, the champion who initiates and perfects our faith.” (NLT)
Run the race…no matter your age. Persevere…no matter the circumstances. Win the prize…no matter the challenges!
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Thursday, October 3rd, 2024
“I’m nobody.” “I’m inadequate.” “I have no status.” “I have no talents or skills.” “I have nothing to bring to the table.” And the penultimate: “I can’t.”
Those are often short little comebacks we use when asked to do something out of our comfort zone, or when challenged by something out of our wheelhouse. We often shrink in fear because we just don’t think “we got it” or to put it another way: we think we don’t have the “it” factor (whatever “it” is).
Step back for a moment and take a breath. Imagine if some of the Bible characters said that and were paralyzed by fear:
- David was the runt of the litter. Not even his dad thought he could be a candidate for the next king.
- Gideon was hiding, crushing grain while in hiding out of fear of the Philistines, when the angel appeared to him and called him a “mighty man of valor.” 🙂
- Deborah became the only female judge because she was willing to trust God (unlike Barak, her counterpart).
- Peter was a blue-collar fisherman trying to keep his head above water (pun intended) making a living.
- Caleb and Joshua stood against the odds (10 other spies) to say, “We can do this. We can take this land.” They spent the next 40 years wandering the wilderness because the other 10 spies were able to convince millions of people to be afraid.
This brings to mind verses in I Corinthians 1. Verses 27-29 say, “Instead, God chose things the world considers foolish in order to shame those who think they are wise. And he chose things that are powerless to shame those who are powerful. God chose things despised by the world, things counted as nothing at all, and used them to bring to nothing what the world considers important. As a result, no one can ever boast in the presence of God.” (NLT)
The world see humility and trust in God as silly, as a sign of weakness. Foolish is the word Paul uses. Little do they know God’s presence and power make all the difference in a believer’s life.
So…step out today in faith. Take that step which seems so scary, so unsure. Your nothingness, your inadequacy, becomes much in God’s hands.
Besides…can’t never did anything.
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Wednesday, September 18th, 2024
I read the following story recently. I thought I would share it with you:
In 1942 Davis Ellis was hired as educational director for Allstate Insurance Company. His job was to recruit and train female insurance agents during WWII. In 1950 Ellis’ daughter got sick with hepatitis. One morning as Dave headed out the door for work, the family physician called to let the family know that he was very concerned about JoAnn and that he was calling in a specialist, a Dr. Keyser. That evening when Ellis returned home, his wife, Helen, rushed to him and threw her arms around him. “Dave,” she said, “the specialist has examined JoAnn and Dr. Cummings tells me that JoAnn in in good hands with Dr. Keyser.”
JoAnn recovered, and later that year, Ellis was part of a group working into the night to plan Allstate’s ad program for the coming year. Dave Ellis remembered how his anxiety eased when hearing those words: in good hands. He suggested using it as a slogan, along with an illustration of a pair of hands cradling a car. “You’re in good hands” has been Allstate’s slogan ever since. (found in Saved by Nancy Guthrie-p.127)
Just so you know, this is not a commercial for Allstate. My insurance company has been a “Good Neighbor” for close to 50 years. 🙂
But here is my thought I’d like you to ponder as well: Many people deem trouble and suffering as a bad thing. To be transparent, I’ve done my fair share of complaining, whining, and even crying when situations seem to keep coming and want to overwhelm me. But one thing I need to, no, want to keep in mind is that every moment, every event, is either a learning moment or a teaching moment. I can use it to learn something or use it to teach something. Mr. Ellis used the moment with his daughter to learn something and then, in turn, use it to teach/share into a positive lesson.
In I Corinthians 10 the Apostle Paul is writing about Israel’s history in the wilderness and says these words: “These are things that happened as a warning to us.” (v.6). In verse 11 he says, “These things happened to them as examples for us. They were written down to warn us…”
Waste nothing. Learn from it. Teach it.
{Note: All Scripture from New Living Translation}
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Wednesday, September 4th, 2024
For over a decade the Marvel Cinematic Universe was a ratings juggernaut. Iron Man. Captain America. Spider Man. Ant Man. The Hulk. Thor. Captain Marvel. The Avengers. And more. They seemed like an unstoppable force. Like all fads, however, they got old. Creativity sometimes goes downhill. Sometimes the crowd changes. Sometimes “watch fatigue” sets in. The man behind MCU was a smiling man wearing sunglasses who always had some type of cameo in the movie. His name was Stan Lee. Stan had a personal catch-phrase he used to sign off with in his monthly columns in Marvel comics for decades-the word excelsior. If you look up excelsior in the dictionary it has quite a history. Here is a brief explanation of its history:
Onward and Upward With Excelsior. In 1778 the state of New York adopted a coat of arms incorporating the motto “Excelsior,” Latin for “Higher.” Decades later, the motto sparked the imagination of the young Henry Wadsworth Longfellow, and in 1842 he used it as the title of an allegorical poem of doomed idealism. (Merriam-Webster).
That is an interesting use of a term by Stan Lee. I have no clue whether he was a Christ-follower or not, that is not my purpose in this post. Instead, I prefer to take that word excelsior and apply it to the life of the Christ-follower. Stan once tweeted, “Upward and onward to greater glory! That’s what I wish you whenever I finish tweeting! Excelsior!” Again, I don’t know Stan’s eternal state, but those words strike a chord with me. Is that not what the Christian walk is all about? Upward and onward? Is that not what the Apostle Paul was expressing when he said, “I don’t mean to say that I have already achieved these things (to know Christ, the power of His resurrection and experience the power of His resurrection from verses 10-11) or that I have already reached perfection for which Christ Jesus first possessed me. No, dear brothers and sisters, I have not achieved it, but I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, I press on to reach the end of the race and received the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling me.” (Phil. 3:12-14) (The previously mentioned verses 10-11 were also from Phil. 3).
All that growth is possible because of what Paul also writes in Colossians 2:7: “Let your roots grow down into him, and let your lives be built on him. Then your faith will grow strong in the truth you were taught, and you will overflow with thankfulness.” Upward and onward happens when we go downward and deeper. I was recently talking to someone who was having to replace fence posts because the original were not placed deep enough and were breaking off. The same principle applies to a Christ-follower. Can you imagine the Empire State Building still standing if it had been built with a standard footer used to build a house? Think Leaning Tower of Pisa. For the follower of Christ He is our firm foundation. He is the rock on which we stand. Psalm 71:3 says, “Be my rock of safety where I can always hide. Give the order to save me, for you are my rock and my fortress.”
Where are you planted today? Remember Excelsior, but also remember that happening relies on your foundation.
{Note: All Scripture is from the New Living Translation}
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Wednesday, August 28th, 2024
Highs and lows. Mountains and valleys.
That really is a capsule of our lives and of many of our days. Often, even within the same day, we ride the thrill of the high and the mountain only to find ourselves experiencing the lows of the valleys just an hour or so later. Once, early in my ministry, the senior pastor was gone for two weeks on a trip. This 300+ member church was left to me. Yikes! Green. Inexperienced. Unsure. In one day I went from a funeral to a wedding to a funeral. Yep, you read that right…all in one day! It was definitely a roller coaster day.
I had one of those yesterday. I went from the high of a bike ride to spending time with a young lady and her parents about her upcoming wedding in something like 25 days. (And yes, I showered in between!) 🙂 Her fiance is in the Marines so much has been left to them. We laughed and talked about the wedding plans, walked next door to see the outside yard it is to take place at (unless it rains), and laughed some more. I left there to visit someone who was very emotional following surgery as this person talked about their life. The surgery brought out those already raw emotions that had the person using multiple tissues. While there I met a teacher I had read to her K class for the past two years and was now at another school. We laughed and I think it was good for both of us, especially since her son was having emergency surgery. I then went to a rehab facility to visit with the person who longs to go home and had had a long tiring day of PT, ST, and OT in order to make that home going happen. I finally made my way home to my oasis.
I know that type of day is an anomaly. Some days are humdrum and normal. We all go through those days and times when life seems a tad bit out of control. Even Jesus had days like that. Within one chapter (Luke 8), He went from the high of calming a storm to healing a demoniac of possession to the low of the fear and terror of the people. He then was met by a man who asked Jesus to heal his daughter, to being interrupted by a woman who had suffered bleeding for 12 years. He healed her then moved on to the trauma of watching a father being told his daughter had died. Even then, the reaction of the mourners was laughter at His suggestion that she was not dead. He then witnessed the extreme joy of parents as He brought their child back to life. It’s no wonder Jesus needed to get off by Himself occasionally. He needed to refuel and replenish His spirit by being with His Father.
So it is with us. Those moments with His Father refreshed Him and sustained Him for whatever was on the horizon. So it was for me. The oasis of home and a wife who waits and a daughter who regales with stories from her day at school. (No names mentioned just stories). We all need that oasis. Do you have one? We were not made to keep that bowstring always taught. It has to find some “relaxation” to make it ready for its next use.
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Tuesday, August 27th, 2024
SUCCESSION.
To some that’s a bad word. To some it’s an unspoken word. To others it is a word that fulfills the first part of that word: SUCCESS.
I’ve been reading a lot lately on succession. I’m on my second reading of Next by Vanderbloemen and Bird (First and now second edition). I’ve read two others and will soon read The Elephant in the Boardroom by Weece and Crabtree.
Why? To put it bluntly: I’m 71 years old, soon to be 72 in October. I start my 20th year at OVCF (the church I pastor) in November. I’m not getting any younger. (I know, sad, but true). 🙂 And even though it would be nice to keep pastoring and living to a good old age that isn’t guaranteed. The stats are still one out of one I will kick the bucket. So not only do I need to prepare for my transition out of this life, I also need to prepare for my transition out of OVCF. I want it to grow and live on! NO ONE wants to see something they have given their heart and soul, blood, sweat and tears to go down the tubes. Unless, of course, that person is a narcissist.
There is an old saying
Those who cannot remember the past are doomed to repeat it. (George Santayana, philosopher)
“Wise leaders in pastoral succession will learn from the past.” (Vanderbloemen and Bird-Next-p.154) In my reading I have read of enough failures to know I. DO. NOT. WANT. THAT!
A wise leader also learns to recognize when age, health, or simple lack of effectiveness affects or will soon affect his/her future. That goes for any CEO; founder: leader; church planter; or in my case, a pastor who loves his people.
I’m reminded of the words of John the Baptizer when asked about the popularity of Jesus over him. John said, “He must become greater and greater, and I must become less and less.” (John 3:30 NLT) And that is the whole point of succession. For me at least. I don’t want to hold back the advance of God’s kingdom because of arrogance and pride.
That same principle applies to all leaders faced with the need for succession. Don’t hold back the advance of your company because of arrogance and pride. While I’m not a CEO, A CFO, or any other “O”, I want to see God’s kingdom move forward, especially at OVCF.
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Monday, August 26th, 2024
We all want validation. We all want to know we matter. We all want to know that what we do is important or at least makes a difference. We have no doubt some people make a difference. Consider history: electricity. The phone. The light bulb. The car. You name it. How shocked Henry Ford would be today to see cars in more colors that basic black. But his name goes down in history-not for his comment about the color of cars, but for his invention. The story is told of Alfred Nobel having a life “awakening.” A newspaper erroneously published that he had died (not his brother) and it applauded him for his invention of dynamite and other explosives. It shocked him so much he established the Nobel Peace Prize. He wanted to be known more for peace than blowing things up and taking lives.
Tragically, there are many who never consider their legacy. We are so hungry getting validation from the people around us that we stop getting it from God. We live for the pat on the back, the “atta boy,” that we find ourselves doing what is popular instead of what is right. We seek the here-and-now instead of the eternal. We settle for what feels good in the moment rather than what is going to matter in eternity.
Jesus said it this way: “A good tree can’t produce bad fruit, and a bad tree can’t produce good fruit. A tree is identified by its fruit…A good person produces good things from the treasury of a good heart, and an evil person produces evil things from the treasury of an evil heart. What you say flows from what is in your heart.” (Luke 6:43-44a, 45 NLT)
What we do flows out of what is in our heart. What will you be known for?
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Thursday, August 22nd, 2024
Affirmation and confirmation. Two peas in the same pod and yet, they can stand alone.
Many people cannot live their lives without one or the other and sometimes both. The subtle difference between the two is just that…very subtle. Affirmation seems to be more mental, i.e. “you like who I am and what I am doing so say something that will affirm me.” Confirmation is an approval that I have chosen the better road to take. That may be as clear as mud to you but perhaps I can use a biblical story to illustrate that.
In Mark 10: 35-45 is the story of James and John asking Jesus to grant that one of them sit on His right hand and the other on His left. I think it is significant that Jesus didn’t rebuke them. Instead, He used it as a teaching moment for His disciples. He could have kicked them, read them the right act, belittled them in front of their friends, or something demeaning. He did nothing of the kind. Instead, as I said, He used it as a teaching moment.
Here it is: Glory isn’t gained through ruling but through serving, by taking the lowest place, not the highest.
Many times we do things to receive accolades, which in turn, gives us affirmation. If we don’t get that affirmation we are paralyzed-sometimes with demeaning thoughts we dream up ourselves or simply saying things like “They don’t appreciate me. They take me for granted.” We crave those pats on the back. They are our bread and butter. And here’s the thing: when we don’t get the affirmation it often handcuffs us into inaction. I’m convinced that when that happens we are doomed, not as in dead, but into inaction. We aren’t so sure any more of the direction we have chosen to go in.
Here’s another thought: as a follower of Christ I should not be tied to people’s affirmation of me as a sign of acceptance and approval. It has been said that “worship is an audience of One.” Perhaps living our lives each day should come down to that as well. I should not need the affirmation and approval of others to do God’s work. As the servant love of Jesus captures us, we delight to pursue true greatness by being a servant, not by seeking the “right seat.”
We all long to live commendable and significant lives. No one wants to be sidelined. What we need to decide is will I live for the affirmation and approval of others, or for the abiding peace knowing I have God’s affirmation. That should be enough.
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Tuesday, August 20th, 2024
One of the essential beliefs of a life of grace and truth is the overwhelming truth that grace can’t be earned. Whether one is talking about God’s grace for us or one person’s grace toward another, it cannot be earned.
The Bible consistently speaks of God’s grace toward us. One of the greatest is found in Ephesians 2, perhaps one of the most familiar and impactful: “God saved you by His grace when you believed. And you can’t take credit for this; it is a gift from God. Salvation is not a reward for the good things we have done, so none of us can boast about it.” (Ephesians 2:8-9 NLT)
God’s grace cannot be earned, brought, or bargained for. Those verses are clear: grace is freely given.
Grace also comes into play in our relationships with others. There are some who work hard to impress, to “earn” the approval of another. There are also those who, sadly, keep score. It’s almost like they have a tablet in their hand keeping tabs on every good and bad thing that has been done. It’s almost like the “Love me, Loves me not” scenario. Too many bad check marks and that other person is cast out of our acceptance circle. Check marks to the good bring acceptance and even “love.” It’s interesting that one of the characteristics of love given in I Cor. 13 is “Love doesn’t keep score.” Another translation says, “Love keeps no record of wrongs.”
People filled with grace and love stop collecting tickets. They stop asking if they have collected enough and they stop asking if someone else has collected enough. Let’s stop keeping score-of ourselves and of someone else.
Grace and love are freely given. It is not earned. And it certainly isn’t a result of or offered as a reward from coming out on the “win” side of the score card.
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