November 30

Written by Bill Grandi on November 30th, 2018

 2 lies = devastating consequences

Lie #1- Lie of autonomy. I am an independent human, my life belongs to me, and I have the right to live my life as I please.

Talk about a disaster waiting to happen! Me running my own life? Seriously?

  • Solution: God created me. He owns me. I am His. I’m reminded of these words: “You are not your own; you’ve been bought with a price.”

Lie #2- Lie of self-sufficiency. I have everything within myself to be what I’m supposed to be and do what I’m supposed to do.

That’s the old self-help, pull-yourself-up-by-your-own-bootstraps, Joel Osteen mentality. Yeah…as if that will work.

  • Solution: Realize I was created to be in a relationship-with God and with others.

I like what Tripp says: “The self-made man is always poorly made.” Going my own way and doing my own thing = disaster. Seeing what has happened and will happen should open my eyes to the reality that I am incapable of life on my own.

“There you have it, Father. I’m a disaster without You. My life is chaos on my own. You created me; you own me. Let grace be your fingerprint on me.”

 

6 Comments so far ↓

  1. I, too, love that quote from Tripp, Bill. We are disasters without the grace and the guidance of our loving Father.
    Blessings!

  2. Ryan S says:

    Autonomy and Self-Sufficiency –

    Two lies I believed for the longest time.
    Two lies I still fall back into on occasion.

    Left my childhood home the first Saturday following my graduation. Paid my way through college, while working full-time and maintaining a full-time class load.

    Leaned on my own understanding, my own values, my own desires to drive me…

    What Tripp says is true… Autonomy (believing I am my own) is a life-destroying lie. I was created for a purpose. If I am not fulfilling that purpose, I am dying.

    Self-sufficiency is the lie I chose to believe and often revert back to. As an introvert, this is a comfortable place for me. The problem is if I isolate myself for too long, I don’t grow. I don’t experience grace and don’t deliver grace…

    Tripp points out… It takes an act of grace to fully see our own need for grace…

    Ryan S.

    • Bill Grandi says:

      As time goes on I realize the utter futility of autonomy. But that doesn’t stop the struggle. I, like you, struggle with self-sufficiency. Thanks for your honesty Ryan

  3. floyd samons says:

    Yep. Those are the lies of the enemy. Free will is easy to mistake as sovereign… but it’s a far cry from it…