I’m less than a day removed from cataract surgery in one eye (the other comes next Monday). I go back today for an exam and they will pop out the right lens of my glasses. I’m guessing that will help with the blurred vision. So, that’s my excuse for errors in my typing today. 🙂
My title for today’s devotion is Encouragement vs Discouragement.
“And seldom is heard and discouraging word/And the skies are not cloudy all day.” That’s a refrain from a cowboy song of yesteryear: Home, Home on the Range. It is, of course, sort of a Pollyanna song and view of life. It’s simply not possible to go through life without some discouragement.
But…I can go a long way toward not being part of that discouragement simply by watching what I say. Today’s devotion is a bit of a piggyback of yesterday’s on speaking too quickly (losing our temper) vs allowing time between what happens and our words. Today’s has more to do with what I say. Are the words I say encouraging someone or discouraging someone?
Proverbs 15:26b says, “…but gracious words are pure.” Verse 30 adds, “The light of the eyes rejoices the heart, and good news refreshes the bones.” Those verses tell me my reaction to others and events and their response, is largely determined by the way it is presented. That also reminds me that what I say is important but the way I say it is equally important. Some questions flood my mind. Do I pass along good words? Kind words? Gracious words? Or do I pass along words that sting and hurt and are like barbs to a person’s soul? Are my words encouraging or discouraging someone? Do they rejoice someone’s heart and refresh someone’s bones?
Some people seem to carry the weight of the world on their shoulders. Do my words ease that burden or do they add to it and make it heavier? There is no doubt in my mind what and which words the Father would have me use and share.
“Father, may my words be those which lift other’s up. May they be words which echo Proverbs 15:30 and lift a heart and refresh the bones. Let my words today be words of encouragement and not discouragement. To put it another way: let them be words of life.”
Your post today, Bill, reminds me of the old adage – If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all. May the words of our mouths be quick to offer encouragement to others.
Blessings!
You put it much more eloquently than I did Martha. Thanks.
“Allowing time between what happens and our words”… I think this is key in our fallen state. Allowing a moment for the Spirit of God to intervene before we allow vinegar to pour from our lips.
I’d say you definitely have the gift of encouragement.
I’m a lot better than I once was when it comes to keeping my mouth shut, but I had a long way to go… and I’m still not there yet!