June 5

Written by Bill Grandi on June 5th, 2024

One of the hardest things for most of us to do, i.e. yours truly, is to surrender. Coming in first is so ingrained in us that coming in second is not seen as an option. Athletes are taught to win and most often, win at all costs. I have no doubt that type of thinking is behind the use of performance enhancing drugs (PEDs). We want to win! No, we HAVE to win!

This battle doesn’t even have to play out on the baseball field or basketball court or at an Olympic event. It can be seen in the classroom. A home. While driving (can anyone say road rage?). Even a store. It is seen in a battle of wills. “I will not bend to your rules.” Is that not what temper tantrums are all about? I was in a grocery story last week and I saw this fleshed out in front of me. I watched a mother and son battle it out. He could not have been older than 3.  He wanted. She said no. He still wanted and she still said no. He knocked things off the shelf in defiance. She bent to pick them up. He took off with the cart and she went after him. I saw some fire in her eyes. (I also know the solution to that but I’m guessing that would not have been a good time to tell her. 🙂 ). I wonder if she was trying gentle parenting? Aaaah but that is a story for another time.

In Genesis 32 (take a moment to read verses 22-32) we have a titanic-type battle-a wrestling match between Jacob and God. What a classic story worth taking a closer look at. Perhaps tomorrow.

Until then, yours and my best reaction to the battle of wills is surrender. To stop fighting God for supremacy. Jacob was a head-strong, conniving, devious man. That’s the story of his whole life up until the wrestling match. Only a surrender to God will change that.

Sounds familiar.  

 

6 Comments so far ↓

  1. Surrender is my word for the year, Bill, and it has to be my daily prayer. Yes, we want it our way and we want to “win” at all cost. Yet, the only way we truly win is to submit to God’s will and surrender to His lead. Wonderful post, my friend. Blessings!

    • Bill Grandi says:

      That’s interesting to hear Martha about your word for the year. As you can tell, I would put my stamp of approval on the rest of your comment also.

  2. Ryan S. says:

    Though our best reaction to the battle of wills is to surrender, why is it that we often must wrestle to the the point of a permanent limp (life changing event) before we are willing to give up. A lesson that I continue to learn and relearn and relearn and relearn and well you get the point.

  3. Linda Stoll says:

    Oh yes, our wills are strong and we are slow to humble ourselves, back down, and surrender all we are and all we have to the One who calls the shots.

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