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May 20

Wednesday, May 20th, 2026

Anger is one of those emotions that we all have…to various degrees. 

I’ve been reading Good & Angry by the late David Powlison. The 2016 book has been sitting on my office book shelf since I got it over a year ago, but just never took the time to read it due to needing to read other books. The book, as you can surmise, is about anger and it is subtitled “Redeeming Anger, Irrational Complaining, and Bitterness.” Since I am considering preaching on those subjects in July and August I thought I would read it. So far, so good. 

Powlison says this: 

In real life, anger is the reaction that incinerates marriages and disintegrates families. It energizes gossip and guns down classmates. It divides churches, turns friendships into enmity, and erupts in road rage. It is the stuff of every form of grievance and bitterness…Anger is also the basic DNA of complaining, brooding, irritability, and bickering…The crucial issues in anger touch every one of us. (p.8)

That about says it all doesn’t it?  But there is more! He goes on to describe 3 different types of angry people. Here they are with my very brief summary:

1. Domestic Gunslinger. After describing a couple who literally had a gunfight in their house, Powlison says, “A gunfight is one way to cut another person off and protect your turf.” (p.11) He, of course, wasn’t talking about a literal gunfight, but simply fighting to get your own way, regardless of the other person’s feelings. 

2. The Volcano. My guess is that we are all familiar with this one. Someone suddenly has an outburst and we wonder, “Where in the world did that come from?” We never saw it coming. Rage seethes, often below the surface, until “the moment” when eruption happens. Someone pushes a button and regurgitation is the reaction. 

3. The Iceberg. This is the person who seems under control, but actually lives in a universe that features him or her. Everything they feel or say can be traced back to past actions, by someone else. Everyone is against them. And yet, they appear to be cool, calm, and collected on the outside.

I’m not a professional counselor and certainly don’t know the answers to all of this. But I think it is important that we acknowledge that we are all angry to some degree. I thought I was fine this morning until things started going awry-little things that don’t amount to a hill of beans-and I found myself being annoyed. Like typing this. Do you know many times I have had to stop and make corrections? You don’t want to know, nor do you want to take a thermometer to my collar. 🙂

Long story short: get control of your anger. 

 

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May 19

Tuesday, May 19th, 2026

“Looks like surgery is your only option at this point.” 

I heard those words yesterday. Nothing serious. For the past few years I have been dealing with and being treated for a trigger finger of my left index finger. It bends and catches and then pops back up (painfully sometimes). I’ve had several injections to try and calm it down. Unfortunately, none worked long-term. But that was not why I was there. I have developed the same condition on my right middle finger (yeah THAT one)-my dominant hand. In the process of treating that is when I heard the “solution” to the left index finger. 

So she gave me an injection in my right middle finger trigger point. It. hurt. like. fire! My hand burned and the finger felt like it was going to explode. (She warned me). Yesterday afternoon it felt swollen and hurt to touch the knuckle or the palm of that hand. It also hurt to bend it. 

This morning it feels better than it has in weeks. In my case, the pain came before the healing. How long will it last-who knows? But I’ll take it! 

There are much bigger things going on in my life-and yours-than trigger finger misery. Serious health issues. Prodigal children. Job loss. Loss of someone you love. And more. (Those are just examples). While I believe it to be true, to hear someone say, “God is working all things together for your good” sounds so blah. True, but blah. Hurting people don’t need spiritual platitudes. They need your heart. The thing is: God is doing so much more than we can see or know. I read a quote by Pastor John Piper:

God is always doing 10,000 things in your life, and you may be aware of three of them. 

We don’t know-we may never know-the answer to the “Why?” question. As hollow as it may sound at the time, He is working all things for my good….whether I see it or not. 

I think I’ll have the temporary pain of the surgery for the long-term benefit. 

{Update on surgery request: no definitive results yet. Atypical cells were found but that can be different things. Every colonoscopy I have had, but one, had irregular cells. All removed and a clean bill of health given. Thanks for praying and please keep doing so.}

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May 18

Monday, May 18th, 2026

“No one is ever too far gone.”

I have preached that for years. This past weekend that truth came home to roost for me. I received a text from a long-time person I know. The gist of his text was that he wanted me to know he found his way back to Jesus. His life had been a wreck when someone reached out to him years ago and pointed him to Jesus. Along the way though, he soured on that commitment. Said he was a Deist at one point, then basically nothing. Along the way, choices were made that devastated others, ruined relationships, and led him further and further away. But deaths of friends began to wake him up; a son’s commitment to Jesus; a contact from that old friend who initially reached out to him; and the work of the Holy Spirit, drew him back into the loving arms of the Savior who never stopped loving and wooing him. 

I was reminded of the thief on the cross who used his exposure to Jesus and his final moments alive to ask Jesus to remember him. I told this person in a return text how happy this makes my heart and how he was never out of God’s hand or eye and this proves no one is ever too far gone to come home. I also told him he answered a prayer of mine that he didn’t even know about. 

No one is ever too far gone. If you know someone you have been praying for for years, don’t give up. Until they breathe their last breath, they can come home to the Savior’s arms. He can take the most crusty, sin-hardened heart and melt it and make it His. 

The proof was in a text this past weekend. 

{A prayer request: My daughter’s boy friend is having tests done today for possible pancreatic cancer and lesions on his liver. May I ask you to pray for them both and for whatever the results might be? (He is not the subject of this post) Thanks}

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May 14

Thursday, May 14th, 2026

“What if?” vs. “Even if”

Tucked away in the Old Testament book of Daniel is one of the coolest stories and phrases in all of the Bible. The 3 Hebrew young men- Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego-are brought before King Nebuchadnezzar because they refused to bow before his idol. The punishment was a fiery furnace. King Neb was so furious he flew into a rage (3:13) and ordered them brought before him. He gave them one more chance to recant and bow. Their answer is classic: “We don’t need to defend ourselves before you. If we are thrown into the blazing furnace, the God whom we serve is able to save us…But even if he doesn’t, we want to make it clear to you, Your Majesty, that we will never serve your gods or worship the gold statue you have set up.” (NLT)

And there it is! “If we are thrown…But even if.” No hesitation. No doubt. No whining. No wimping out. They were going to trust no matter what, even if it means being cooked. They trust God would be there with them in the fire and save them, but even if they died, they would never bow to the king. If you know the rest of the story, Neb ordered the furnace 7 times hotter. It was so hot it killed the soldiers who threw them in the fire. Almost immediately the King jumped up in amazement. He saw not 3, but 4 in the furnace. Ordered out, not a hair on their head was singed. (The whole story is found in Daniel 3). 

God replaces our “what if?” with all its questions and puts in its place “even if” with all its reassurance and answers. That has got to be one of the most liberating statements in all of Scripture. Let Him do that for you…replace your “What if?” with “Even if.” 

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May 13

Wednesday, May 13th, 2026

Rejoice in all things? Seriously?

In Philippians 4:4 the Apostle Paul wrote, “Always be full of joy in the Lord. I say it again-rejoice!”  He continues in verses 6-7a with “Don’t worry about anything, instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank Him for all he has done. Then you will experience God’s peace…” (NLT)

Those words seem so strange to us, don’t they? “Me? Rejoice when things are all messed up and going south?” I read recently about a lady named Madame Guyon. She had a difficult life, marked by illness, neglect, and humiliation. When she was 16, her father tricked her into marrying a man who was 22 years older and afflicted with gout. She became his nurse and cared for him tirelessly, living in her mother-in-law’s home, even after she spread vicious lies about her. Guyon deeply trusted God’s character and saw that her father’s deceit and mother-in-law’s lies were both blessings because they enabled her to humbly turn to God and see His great love for her. Rather than growing bitter at the pain she’d endured, she chose to see God’s loving hand in it-that God has brought all her circumstances to draw her closer to Him. 

Vaneetha Rendall Risner, in her book Watching for the Morning writes,

“Everything that is difficult in our lives is a divine invitation to turn to God. Our annoyances can reveal our sin. People who hurt us give us opportunities to forgive.” (p.14)

Believing difficult times in our lives is often God’s invitation to trust Him is something I believe very strongly. That is why I’m asking for prayer. Here it is (no names because of the public nature of this post). Someone I know has a friend who is suspected of having pancreatic cancer and also has some lesions on his liver that will need to be biopsied as well. He is to have an endoscopy on Monday and they will take it from there. If it is cancer, he will have chemo to shrink it, then if that happens, surgery to remove it. My deepest concern is this person is not a Christ-follower. I’m praying if not me then someone can tell him about Jesus and lead him to Christ. Your prayers would be greatly appreciated. 

Meanwhile, “rejoice in the Lord” becomes a tangible and real test. 

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May 12

Tuesday, May 12th, 2026

Two “A’s” plague us: Anxiety and Anger. 

I wrote briefly about Anxiety yesterday here. Today I’d like to say a little about Anger (but certainly not exhaustive).

Anger is a curious thing to me. It’s like a double-edged sword. There is good Anger and there is bad Anger. We have all experienced both, but perhaps recognize anger gone wrong with more insight. We’ve dished it out; we  have been dished on. We have seen what it has done to others (by our hands or another’s); we have seen/felt what it has done to us. Sometimes it is mild-frustration, complaining, irritation. Sometimes it is veiled-judgmental thoughts, for example. Sometimes it is “hidden” from view-painted over with a plastic smile, busyness, or an addiction. And sometimes-WHOA LOOK OUT!-everything breaks loose. Words fly. Emotions erupt. Physical manifestations overtake us. Not a pretty sight. 

Anger, to be sure, is not always bad or destructive. While I have mostly described the destructive kind, there is good anger. Anger against sin and injustice. Anger vs prejudice (I am currently reading “Night” by Elie Wiesel, his account of being in a concentration camp). Anger vs sin and false information (abortion, trans mutilation, for example). 

The tricky part is navigating it and confronting it correctly. Not kidding ourselves by saying, “I’m justified in this” in order to curb or salve our guilt. Blaming others, as though our reaction is justified because it is “their fault.” 

The Bible tells us “And don’t sin by letting anger control you. Don’t let the sun go down while you are still angry, for anger gives a foothold to the devil.” (Eph. 4:26-27 NLT) So there is the admonition to deal with it and not let it stick around. There is justified anger over sin and unrighteousness and blatant disregard for God and others. But even that is to dealt with and not left hanging around.  We must, no need, to be careful that anger does not grip our heart. 

I’ll echo the Bible again: “Don’t sin by letting anger control you.” Other translations say, “Be angry, but don’t sin.” No matter how you shake it it all means the same: don’t let sin hang around in the form of anger. Slam the door.  Or to paraphrase the last part of that verse from Ephesians: “Kick that ladder out from underneath the devil” or “Slam that door in his face.” 

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May 11

Monday, May 11th, 2026

2 “A’s” plague us: Anxiety and Anger.

Both can pull us down; neither can pull us up. 

Anxiety can drive us to disquiet. To lose sight of what is good, true, and beautiful. Phil 4:8 says, “Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise.” Colossians 3:1 adds, “Think about the things of heaven, not the things of earth.” (Both are from the New Living Translation)

Anxiety leads us away from the direction of those verses. We find ourselves looking inward, instead of upward. Instead of trusting God’s perfect plan, we tend to become the back seat driver who takes over the wheel thinking we can do it better. Aaah yeah. 

A.W.Tozer once said,

If we understand that everything happening to us is to make us more Christlike, it will solve a great deal of anxiety in our lives. 

Anxiety comes, and is magnified, when we get this crazy notion we know best. I realize anxiety comes in all sizes, shapes and colors and often comes from all sizes, shapes, and colors, but when shaken out much of anxiety is a result of “I know best.” The words of Philippians and Colossians I previously quoted really are a lifeline to ending anxiety. 

{Note: Tomorrow I will take up the other “A”: Anger}

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May 7

Thursday, May 7th, 2026

My post is late this morning due to preparation for a funeral I am involved in later this morning. Fortunately, the man was a Christ-follower and so the funeral is easier to do than if the person did not know Jesus. I thought I would share some of my thoughts for you to hold in your own heart, but then maybe also be able to share with others whom you may know having a hard time. Here are some of my thoughts I’m sharing:

Main thought: WHAT GOD HAS PREPARED FOR US IS FAR BETTER THAN WHAT WE LEAVE BEHIND. 

John 14:1-6  is my go to Scripture here. For those who have placed their trust in Jesus, a place has been prepared for them. 

  1. Heaven is going to be our new home. Jesus said He is going to prepare us a place. In Bible days, the husband would build onto his parent’s house a room that served as a place for he and his future bride to live. Rev. 21 speaks of a new heaven and a new earth.  “For the Christian, death is the door to life.” 
  2. Heaven is a house of reunion. Jesus  said, “I will come and get you…” “Separation is the law of earth; reunion is the law of heaven.”  Important: Never say “Goodbye.” Always say, “See you later.”
  3. Heaven is the house of the living. Rev. 21 tells us there is “no more sickness, death, sorrow, tears, darkness, or pain.” Sounds pretty good to me! (And certainly to anyone, especially this man, who suffered incredible pain the past few years)
  4. Heaven is a forever home. Death is an intruder, but for the Christ-follower, it is defeated. We will live forever in the presence of God and His Son, Jesus. Our bodies die. Waste away. We do all we can to slow the process: exercise, take vitamins and supplements. But the statistic is still 1/1.

Finally, GOD’S GRACE IS SUFFICIENT FOR ALL OF LIFE’S HEARTACHES.

Jesus said, “Let not your heart be troubled.” That word means “stirred up or shaken.” God does not fall asleep on the job and He knows what each of us are going through, (especially the widow and the rest of the family and friends). 

That is just a short snippet of my words today. Maybe it is something you can use for yourself or someone you know. 

GRACE AND PEACE. 

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May 6

Wednesday, May 6th, 2026

I have been enjoying reading a book entitled 30 Key Moments in the History of Christianity by Mark W. Graham. Last night as I was putting the finishing touches on a chapter titled “Persecution, Schism, and a Doctrine of the Church,” he quoted an early church leader named Cyprian. As Rome harassed early followers of Jesus, Cyprian said,

“For it is not persecution alone that is to be feared…Caution is more easy where danger is manifest, and the mind is prepared beforehand for the contest when the enemy exerts himself. The enemy is more to be feared and to be guarded against, when he creeps on us secretly…deceiving by the appearance of peace.” (p.59)

As I read that my mind went in another direction. Not so much the persecution angle, but how it applies to our daily lives as believers. I thought about the Scripture in I Peter 5:8-“Stay alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour.” Or Eph. 4:26-27 where Paul writes, “And don’t sin by letting anger control you. Don’t let the sun go down while you are still angry, for anger gives a foothold to the devil.” 

Just as Cyprian was concerned about the enemy creeping in and destroying the unity of the church, we should be concerned about the enemy creeping up and in to hurt or destroy our testimony, our peace, joy, and love for God and each other. 

So like all good soldiers, know your enemy. Expect not just frontal attacks, but also blind-sided ones. The enemy is good at that. Be alert! Be on guard! 

{Notes: 1) All Scripture is from the New Living Translation. 2) Graham’s book is an excellent one to read!} 

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May 5

Tuesday, May 5th, 2026

“Jesus is coming again and this is how it will happen.”

“No. This is how.”

On and on it goes. Speculation abounds. “Experts” know it all (or so they think). It goes without saying no one really knows the day or the hour. 

But there is one thing we can or should all agree on: we need to be prepared for that day. Sadly enough, there are even people who have taken that to an extreme or a warped view. We have the doomsday prophets who convince people to join their extremist cult. We have “prophecy buffs” who have Jesus coming at every changing world event. This is not a 2000 thing. This is a “from-the-very-beginning-of-the-church” thing. Ever since Jesus left, there have been those who have gone to extremes about His return. (Who can forget the Left Behind series)? 

Now…I believe Jesus will return, AND (here is something so astounding astute it will amaze you): we are closer today than yesterday. 🙂

Maintaining a proper balance between being prepared and “when” has and always will be a challenge. On the one hand, we need to keep our eyes to the sky looking for His return; on the other we must not look under every rock trying to figure out when. 

We live with expectation; we don’t live with hyper fear or hyper speculation, i.e. guessing. Jesus will come when it is His time. When the Father says, “Go.” Until then…B.E. R.E.A.D.Y.  Be prepared. Be expectant.

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